Secret to a last long relationship.

Good Relationship don't just happen. They take time, patience, and two people who truly want to be together. Isn't the one which is free from problems but it's the one where one sorry and a smile makes everything just as perfect as before.

Everyone can enter into a relationship, but few may stay. It takes a lot of sweet efforts to build a good one, yet ironically, one mistake can destroy everything you have started. However good or bad you feel about it, the person you are with at this moment is the "right" person, because he or she is the mirror of who you are inside and never let go, no matter how hard the situation is.

Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something. They're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take. To love without condition, talk without intention, give without reason, and care without expectation.

Be true to yourself, be true to your partner because the most important ingredient we put into any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are. You must be the one who will build trust and integrity and show loyalty that can never be break.

"A relationship is like a rose. How long it lasts, no one knows. Love can erase an awful past, love can be yours, you'll see at last. To feel that love, it makes you sigh. To have it leave, you'd rather die. You hope you've found that special rose, cause you love and care for the one you choose."

After this long post you will realize every simple detail that you need to have a last-long relationship. Though this post wasn't just enough. A good relationship always depends on the two.

But for me, it's just so simple. And there's only one thing a relationship requires. Falling In Love. Falling in love many times only with the same person. Only with the same person but deeper and deeper every time.

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The Perfect Girl

If I were to describe the kind of girl I wanted, I probably couldn't do it. She would have some of these traits but no one on Earth is perfect. Finding a girl exactly like this is probably difficult. However, if I were to describe the perfect girl, here she is.

First and foremost, she had to love me back. She's not the kind of girl who gets around a lot. In other words, she's not a slut. I want a girl who is able to take care of herself but doesn't necessarily want too. This girl would have friends she'd do anything for and a family that means the world to her. It's okay if she's been in trouble a few times but not in a major mistake.

Her personality. I want a girl who's kind and nurturing. If she sees a homeless man on the streets, she'll give him food or money to help him. I wouldn't want her to be overly dependent on me but I'd like to feel a little needed. I would like a girl who would call me every minute if I ever have to go away on a trip. Someone who would be overjoyed to see me when I got back, and would be heartbroken if anything were happen to me.  I wanted to feel important but not trapped. She would hate hurting nice people but always be willing to speak her mind and stand for what she believed was right. A girl who could bring that kind of strength and conviction out of me. A girl who can fight, but only to protect herself or somebody else. She would have strong moral beliefs and she tries to stick with them whenever possible. She greatly enjoys helping people who need her help, and hates it when she was unable to. She doesn't like to see bad guys win, and she hates to see good guys lose. She believes in God and believes that he places more emphasis on a person's actions than their religion. She would be nonjudgmental. I need a girl who is resilient, because if there is anything happen to me, she probably cries an awful lot but I'd want to know as I died, she would be able to move on with her life and take good care of our kids. She would love to have kids. I want kids. I love kids, don't know how many but since she's the one who would have to carry and give birth to them all, I'll let her decide.

The girl would have to be honest and loyal to those she cares about. Loyalty is a must, it's the trait most highly prize in myself and the people I care about. Love without loyalty is doomed to become nothing but pain, depression, and failure. The girl probably wouldn't be very outgoing, but would like the occasional trip like to the beach, or amusement park or maybe a romantic dinner for two. She’d have to be cheerful and playful. I'd like her to tell a few jokes and tell a few stories. When she get's sad, I'd want her to be willing to cry into my shoulder and tell me what's wrong. So, even if I can't make it right at least she'll have it off her chest.

I would want a girl who will take care of me whenever I’m sick, she will comes over, freezes a towel, pulls up the blanket, kisses my forehead, wraps me in her arms, watches me sleep, whispers I love you, brings me water and medicines, and still kisses me even if that can make her sick too. For once, I want her to be the reason why I cut my hair because she say so, the reason why I buy a shirt just because she have the same color, the reason why I fall asleep while holding my phone at night, the reason why I love something I used to hate because she love it and lastly, I want her to be the reason why I smile and laugh.

I would like a girl who will listen to me whenever I started to talk seriously. I liked the girl who apologizes for crying over something silly. A girl who will usually says, “Let’s not fight anymore” even though she knew it will happen. I would like a girl who will still miss me even though we were always together.

In the end, you don't always get the girl whoever you prefer. Love comes in unexpected time, unexpected place, and unexpected reasons with an unexpected person.

When one day, I fall in love, I’ll make sure that she would be the happiest girl on Earth. I want to make her smile whenever she’s sad. I will do everything to make her feel very special, feel comfortable and secure whenever she’s with me. I will let her feel that I’m the luckiest man because I have her. I want to be her man grows old and enjoy life with her.

“The person who really loves you sees what a mess you can be, how moody you can get, and how hard you are to handle but still wants you in his/her life.”